I am a “no rules” love coach. I’m not going to tell you to wait 3 days, 3 weeks or 3 months for any specific milestones in your new relationship. What I will insist on, however, is the slow burn. But what does that mean exactly?

Imagine if we could harness all the energy we use worrying about, talking about, thinking about, crying about our relationships… What else might we create?

It might not always look exactly the way you imagined it would, but what would shift if you moved your focus away from how it isn’t to how it is? Could you see that maybe he has been dancing with you all along, you just weren’t able to see it?

Bringing a woman into her feminine, Queen energy who draws out the best in her King is one of my strongest skills as a love coach.

You, my dear, do not need to be saved by me, or anyone. But you do deserve the support. We all do.

I don’t believe you should sit in someone’s waiting room; I also believe that we are highly intuitive beings who can see the bigger truth when we allow ourselves to.

Getting real honest about how your inner child is (unconsciously) sabotaging your love life, your communication style, and your way of relating, is KEY.

How does this feel to you, to slow it down and be more intentional? Does it trigger your fear that it will be too long before you meet your King, or does it set you free?

When you’re in a truly loving relationship, courageous communication will move you from opposite sides of the court to playing on the same team.

Dive deep into why emotional connection above all else matters, how to move through trigger moments in a healthy way and answer the question, ‘Do I say something or keep it to myself?’, and then how to communicate in a way that not only appeases you but draws your man in closer.

What would it look and feel like to sit on your Queen’s throne and have your partner sit on his throne next to you? Two equals, eye to eye, hand in hand, living life together.

If you were to muster up the courage to face temporary pain, what decision might you make today to choose yourself?

The excitement is real, the disappointment is real, the unknown of it all is real. And, it’s also deeply fun when I let it be.

What is one thing (behaviour or belief) you need to leave behind or start doing differently, to properly put your crown back on?

Yes, have the conversations from time to time that clarify that you’re on the same page, AND, have fun along the way, too. Make your intentions clear, and trust that they want to go there with you.

Resisting the people around you and the decisions they make only creates more disconnection. Accepting people where they are at is one of the hardest and most love-changing things you can do.

There’s a common saying in the personal development world that says, “You create your own reality.” And I’d like to say, you create pieces of it.

Ask yourself the question - when I quiet my mind, what do I know to be true?

I’m totally comfortable being the driver. In fact, it feels like I’m very much leaning into my natural strength and feminine essence - I open the door, and he has the choice to walk through it.

I am putting on the mask of being in my feminine, but the masculine is still dominant. I am “doing” the self-care but not really relaxing and allowing myself to receive the full benefits.