Imagine…
Waking up every day with energy because you are crazy about what you do and who you do it with.
Being the living example of a woman who can relax into even the greatest challenges in life.
Knowing exactly what questions to ask - of yourself and your clients - to unlock your highest timeline, where the version of you that you dream of being, already exists.
Feeling deeply confident in your ability to coach, mentor, and guide.
Living free from even the most subtle traces of victimhood.
And savoring the sweet results of choosing love over fear, day after day.
Welcome to The School of Love™
CERTIFICATION ON THE SELF METHOD
SELF elevates the idea that everything is happening for you - guiding you to become the woman who dares to be who she yearns to be, do what she feels called to do, and create what she dreams of in the quiet moments of her soul.
The SELF methodology approaches every question, challenge and desire from a relational lens and helps you to answer these questions:
What's my part in this?
How can I support myself to show up the way I want to?
What would love do here?
What do I desire?
What are my next steps forward?
Based on what I’m experiencing, what attunements can I make to what I’m thinking, how I’m feeling and the actions that I’m taking?
SELF is not only the idea that your relationships are a reflection of yourself, it is a process that will change your life and every life that you touch.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
- People often come to you for wisdom and guidance
- You’ve been told you’re wise and an “old soul”
- You have a knack for seeing patterns
- You love to play in the realm of the unseen
- You have the heart of a healer
- You know you’re meant to help people in this lifetime
- You love personal development work but your current vocation does not align with that
A BODY-BASED APPROACH TO RELATIONSHIPS
This is not a coaching methodology built on logic alone. The SELF Method takes you beyond the mind and into the body - where truth is felt, not analyzed, and where your sovereign power resides.
As The School of Love™, we honor the body as the bridge between heaven and earth, the temple of the soul, and the living portal through which you access your true power to meet life and relationships with conscious choice.
Somatic embodiment isn’t an element of the SELF Method - it’s the foundation.
INTRODUCING, THE SELF METHODOLOGY
SELF: Sovereignty to Embody a Love Frequency
This work has redefined the way I move through life. It has shown me how to receive, even when everything feels hard - in motherhood, in marriage, in business. It invites me to see every experience as sacred, every challenge as an initiation into deeper love.
Since 2016, I’ve shared the SELF Methodology with hundreds of women, helping them call in aligned partnership, expand intimacy, and anchor into a love that starts within.
SELF places the human heart at the center of it all. It’s a body-based pathway to self-awareness, emotional mastery, and conscious communication - a revolutionary approach that transforms fear into devotion and conflict into connection.
SOVEREIGNTY
What it is and what it isn’t
Confirmation Bias & Beliefs
Triggers & Shadow Work
Inner Child & Control Dramas
Reparenting the Inner Child
The Sovereign lens & mirrorwork
Emotional Safety & A Grounded Perspective
LOVE
Love as a Frequency Accepting Duality
Needs, Wants, and Desires
The Desire Paradigm Ego Expectations vs Soul Standards
Vision Casting Choosing Love Over Fear
The Power of Appreciation
The Truth About Expansion
EMBODY
Allowing your Emotions
Shifting Patterns on a Body-Based Level Strengthening the Body
Dialoguing with the Body Body-Based Gratitude
Boundaries & The Inner Child
Needs vs Wants Courageous Communication & Attachment Styles
The Art of Listening Energy & Body
FREQUENCY
What is Frequency?
Your Future Self,
Now Reframing Pain Into Pleasure
The Pleasure Paradigm Masculine and Feminine Energy Amplifying Polarity in Any Relationship
DIANA ESKANDER, FOUNDER OF THE SCHOOL OF LOVE™ AND CREATOR OF THE SOL CERTIFICATION
ABOUT DIANA ESKANDER
Diana Eskander is a Relationship Expert, Mentor, and Founder of the School of Love™, a transformative space guiding individuals to embody their soul standards and experience true union between the masculine and feminine within themselves and their relationships.
Rooted in embodiment and expansion through the soma, Diana leads women to reconnect with their deepest SELF, anchor into a higher standard of love, and receive the infinite abundance available when they relax into their feminine receptivity.
Having walked her own path from anxious attachment to rooted, sovereign love, Diana weaves lived experience with mastery in her work with clients around the world. Her signature creations - She Who Receives and Portal of Love - are portals where women return to their feminine essence and invite men to rise in conscious masculine leadership.
Over the years, Diana has lovingly refined the SELF Method - a body-based, heart-led approach that weaves emotional awareness, conscious choice, and embodied presence where we expand far beyond the endless cyle of healing and fixing and finally step into your future, now.
She has supported nearly a thousand women in building lives where they are SELF centered and get to pour so generously onto others. Her SELF methodology transcends traditional relationship advice, offering embodied practices to create the highest state of love within yourself and in connection with others.
STEP INTO THE JOURNEY OF THE SELF CENTERED LIFE WITH DIANA.
IN THIS CERTIFICATION YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO
✔ Guide your clients with a top down (mind and body) and bottom up (body and mind) approach
✔ Guide your clients in a way that honours their sovereignty
✔ Hold heart-centered space for your clients no matter what they’re navigating
✔ Use the SELF methodology with practical tools to support your clients
✔ Use the SELF methodology with energetic support for your clients
✔ Work with attachment styles
✔ Support your clients in ALL relationships: to men, women, family, friends, children, money, career/business, body, health, etc
WHAT'S INCLUDED
- 14 X PRE-RECORDED TRAININGS
- 9 X DEMO AND DISCUSSION CALLS
- 5 X COACHING CALLS TO BE SUBMITTED AND 3 TO BE REVIEWED WITH FEEDBACK BY A SUPPORT COACH
- MONTHLY PEER PRACTICE CALLS WITH A SUPPORT COACH
- THE SCHOOL OF LOVE CERTIFICATION WORKBOOK (PRINT & DIGITAL)
- THE SCHOOL OF LOVE RESOURCE LIBRARY
- EXERCISES AND INTEGRATION PRACTICES THROUGHOUT YOUR TIME IN THE CERTIFICATION
- ACCESS TO THE COMMUNITY TELEGRAM CHAT
- LIFETIME ACCESS TO YOUR COHORT MATERIALS AND RECORDINGS
LIMITED TIME OFFER
Access to the next live round of The Prosperity Blueprint business mastermind
(VALUED AT $1,444)
Early Bird Offer
THE SOL CERTIFICATION IS FOR YOU IF...
- You’re interested in supporting other humans to live a life beyond the shackles of their own perceived limitations
- You desire to deepen your understanding of the SELF methodology for your life and the lives of those you touch
- You are obsessed with learning, deepening your intuition and growing
- You feel called to support other humans with their relationships
- You are fascinated by the idea that everything in life comes down to patterns of relating
- You feel drawn to this work. It’s beyond logic.
EVERYTHING COMES DOWN TO RELATIONAL PATTERNS
I want to share with you an old love letter I recently stumbled upon, one that I wrote back in 2019:
“I’ve mistreated you for so long. And you, me. I didn’t understand you, respect you, value you. And meanwhile, I looked to you to be my savior. How immature and naïve I’ve been. I’m sorry for making you out to be the bad one, the elusive one, when you were always there in abundance waiting to be seen, all along.
For the years I’ve misunderstood you, I’m sorry, I love you, please forgive me.”
This letter that I wrote may very well have been to a man, but it was actually to money. It was undeniable. I was in a relationship with money.
What else am I in a relationship with, I thought to myself?
It turns out, the answer is everything.
> MONEY
> BUSINESS
> FOOD
> FAMILY
> FRIENDS
> ROMANTIC PARTNER
> DISCIPLINE
> EXERCISE
> SEX
You name it, you’re in a relationship with it. And so are the clients you support and work with. With the SELF methodology you can guide your clients to the healthiest, most expansive relationship with any and all aspects of their lives.
Frequently Asked Questions
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The certification is 8 months with the 2026 cohort starting in April and ending in November
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• Attend/watch all recorded trainings
• Attend 6 out of 9 demo and peer practice calls
• Attend 5 out of the 8 free-form peer practice calls
• Complete a case study with one "client" from the group of students (this looks like conducting 5 coaching sessions, of which 3 will be reviewed by a support coach with feedback provided)
• Your devotion during this journey
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Demo & Discussion Calls with Diana are from 12-1:15pm EST
Free-Form Peer Practice Calls with a support coach are from 2-3:15pm EST
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No. You simply need to have a desire to understand how relational patterns are at the core of every single aspect of life and have a desire to support others with this deep understanding and our SELF methodology.
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Yes! A payment plan is available at 11 monthly payments of $700.
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Regular price: $9,000 USD (taxes included)
Early bird (before March 16, 2026): $7,000 USD paid in full or $7,700 with a payment plan (taxes included)
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The Demo & Discussion calls will be recorded. The Free-Form Peer Practice Calls will not as most time will be spent in breakout rooms and we want to honour the intimacy and presence that occurs.
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It’s our commitment to spread this work far and wide in a way that honours the integrity and divine nature of the work. We ask you to apply so we can get a sense for your experience, desire and capacity to go deep with yourself and others.
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Absolutely. Please email welcome@dianaeskander.com with any questions.
