“For the years I’ve misunderstood you, I’m sorry, I love you, please forgive me.”

“I’ve mistreated you for so long. And you, me. I didn’t understand you, respect you, value you. And meanwhile, I looked to you to be my savior. How immature and naïve I’ve been. I’m sorry for making you out to be the bad one, the elusive one, when you were always there in abundance waiting to be seen, all along. 

For the years I’ve misunderstood you, I’m sorry, I love you, please forgive me.”

This letter that I wrote back in 2019 may very well have been to a man, but it was actually to money. 

I remember reading back on this thinking, “Wow, I’m actually in a relationship with money. What else am I in a relationship with?”

It turns out, the answer is everything.

Exercise

Discipline

Food

Productivity

Business

Success

Clients

Men

Money

S*x

Joy

Pleasure 

You name it, you and I have a relationship with it.

While my romantic life brought the SELF model to life and was the catalyst to its creation, its impact reached so much further and so much wider.

For those who know that relational patterns are at the root of everything you experience in life and are ready to dive deep into this method that will place you and your clients inside of the healthiest relationship to all aspects of your life - I can’t wait to hear from you.