Obsessed with seeing women own this one thing that has the men in their life step the f*ck up

The women in my world know, they don’t have to do so much.

But rather, they get to choose the energetics they want to bring to the relationship:

Joy, laughter, sensuality, lightness

Of course you get to do things for your partner, but it’s who you’re being when you’re doing it that makes the most impact

Your partner doesn’t need you to do so much

What they need is your love for yourself, for them, for life

Your nurturing energy

You get to play as the alchemist 

The feminine as the energetic quality of the relationship means you you get to shift the energetics of your relationship 

In the realm of the unseen

Simply by the lens through which you see your partner

Either through love

Or through lack

I’ve been meditating with the visual of my husband sitting on a throne with a crown (shirtless, because why not;) and it’s incredible to see…

I can shift his actions just by the way that I see him..

The way I see him changes the way I perceive him, changes the way I say things and what I say all together 

In my world, women own their role as the one who determines the energetic of their relationships

So that their man takes on the role of the one who does more in the relationship

She as the yin

Him as the yang

The woman is the emotion of the relationship, the home, the family

She sets the tone

That’s how powerful she is 

She doesn’t see this as a burden she sees it as her power, liberation, MAGIC

She is all that is unseen.

She is powerful. 

She gets to be you 😘