Pursue your own growth and possibly inspire him to pursue his.

Allow yourself to actually integrate all that work you have been doing on yourself to increase the joy factor in your heart, so much so, that it starts to spill over into your relationship - AND then, talk about the growth you want to experience as a couple.

If we do not love and care for ourselves, we cannot love the people in our lives to our fullest potential and to the extent they deserve.

Self love has the power to help you feel aligned, joyful & fulfilled. It also helps you connect with others and improves your relationships.