The Subtle Distinctions That Will Change Your Life

You cannot place yourself in a box.

Right and wrong.

Black and white.

Sure, there are exceptions.

But one of the great challenges of life is navigating the grey.

The spaces in between that aren’t crystal clear.

Using discernment and attuning to our deepest truth - this is the level of mastery we get to hone in on in our many lifetimes.

In conversation with one of the ladies in my circle today, she described how rather than seeing herself as walking away from places, situations and people that don’t value her, she sees it as walking towards the places, situations and people that do value her.

A subtle and powerful distinction.

In another conversation, a woman was describing the challenge of expecting your partner to find solutions to things they don’t see as a problem - in this specific case, asking him to find a couple’s therapist when he thinks they’re doing fine.

Again, bringing in discernment and making a subtle distinction, rather than asking him to help fix the relationship in which he sees nothing wrong, what if it’s about describing how you yourself are struggling in the relationship, and asking for support to help you feel better inside of it.

When I see the women around me, tune into this level of truth, peeling back the layers, throwing away blanket statements, and coming home to their truth, I know they are anchored in the potency of their unique power.

Which always lies in your unique truth.

Not inside of any box.

My wish is for you to read this and ask yourself, where am I attempting to put a blanket solution over something that actually requires my subtle atunement?

With love,

Diana