Your controlling behaviour in your relationship is NOT masculine

It shows up as… 

you making sure you see each other or talk a certain number of times/per week while you’re dating.

managing your partner’s health habits and doing all the research from him.

following up regularly on the things he said he would do.

While this isn’t feminine, it isn’t masculine, either.

These energies are divine in their nature and what you’re experiencing when you’re doing those things is the opposite: 

it’s fear.

And so while you’re doing everything you can to experience and feel more love, what you’re actually experiencing is perpetual fear.

Let’s be very clear - 

Control is NOT masculine.

Control is fear.

I understand so damn well why you operate this way. Heck, I catch myself there, too.

Imagine your fear as tightly wound threads on a spinning wheel, each twist and turn representing a moment of tension. As you gently pull at the strands, they begin to unravel, releasing their grip on your body, allowing you to breathe freely. The more you unwind, the lighter you feel, transforming the weight of control into a flowing tapestry of calmness and ease.

This is what happens when you enter a space with me.

This gets to be your LINE IN THE SAND moment. If you’re genuinely ready to stop the fear cycle when you’re dating and in your relationships, DM me “line in the sand” and let’s talk about the ways we can work together.

I love you.