Do You Have to Kiss A 100 Frogs Before You Meet Your King?

One of the most exhilarating things I get to experience is witnessing a client have a profound and palpable shift in her thinking and energetic field.

I witness my client embody the truth that the same intuition she uses in her vocation (she is a highly successful intuitive healer, famous in her own right), can be used in dating.

That she absolutely does not need to kiss 100 frogs before she meets her King.

It was like an instant sigh of relief, and a massive weight lifted off her chest.

I asked her if there was ever a time when she did sales calls for her business - to which she replied, yes.

I asked if she can imagine having 75 sales calls (an arbitrary number some pseudo expert threw out as the average number of guys you have to meet before meeting your match), to only “close” 1.

Oooh she felt that.

Then I asked her to imagine what my energy might have been like if when the first time she and I spoke, she was my call number 75 after coming off 74 no’s.

Would I have been as compelling?

As light?

As confidently detached?

...would she have wanted to work with me?

You may have guessed her answer.

I absolutely don’t encourage quantity over quality.

And even more so, as a Projector (her human design), she does not have the energy to talk to and date this many guys.

It’s simply not sustainable.

So her assignment? To use her intuition and discernment to feel into who she wants to get on a call with - and to make that first (face-to-face) call, short.

And then, to use her intuition to discern if she wants to get on a second call with him, and then perhaps a date.

Even if she’s only sparked by one guy online every few weeks, she will commit to stepping into this abundance mindset and respecting her energetic capacity.

It is not a race.

It is not a process to get “over with”.

She is a Queen, who will spend her energy and time wisely.

So tell me, how does this feel to you, to slow it down and be more intentional? Does it trigger your fear that it will be too long before you meet your King, or does it set you free?

With love,
Diana