How do I speed up the timeline on my partner proposing to me?

A beautiful client asked me the other day:


“How do I speed up the timeline on my partner proposing to me?”


For context, they’ve been together under a year, have known each other for a while, and both see long-term potential.


And she wants to get married and start a family yesterday.


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Here’s what I shared with her (and while the voice note energy can’t be replicated, we’ll try our best here on IG 😉):


I celebrated her for not letting fear take over, and then invited her to really notice that when we’re trying to make something happen because of a timeline in our mind, the other person can feel that. He may start questioning whether he’s truly loved for who he is or simply being positioned to fill the role of husband and future father. Our truth is always felt, even when we don’t say it out loud.


So when she asked how to accelerate the process, the real answer was this: be the woman he wants to be married to. Show up as someone he feels amazing, relaxed, appreciated, and joyful to be around—rather than someone pushing toward an invisible finish line.


I asked her to reflect: If you were him, would you feel seen and loved… or used for a purpose?

Wherever she noticed gaps, I encouraged her to close them—not to get a proposal, but to feel good within herself. When she does that, he will naturally want to lock that commitment in with her.


Because here’s the truth: rushing actually slows things down.

It creates pressure, doubt, and distance.


Take a breath. Relax into the process. Trust what’s unfolding. Enjoy the relationship you’re building.


The right commitment grows in the space where both people can breathe.


This is the energy of the ONE he can’t resist.

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