Unpopular opinion: you CAN change him

But before you go taking out your notepad to get ready for a 5 step process to make him rise up in his follow through, emotional depth, and in his initiative, hear me out.

This is going to require YOU to try something you’ve never done tried before. 

It’s going to require you to do less - less talking, less cajoling, less convincing. 

CHANGE YOUR LENS AND HE WILL CHANGE.

This is more than just an energetic shift, this is science.

A recent UCLA Couple’s lab showed that when a woman relaxes her nervous system, her partner has the capacity to increase his income. 

This makes perfect sense.

It’s one NS in your household, and that system is heavily based on the woman.

You have the underworld within you, and it is strongly influences how the closest people around you feel, what they believe and therefore what they allow themselves to be capable of.

The lens in which you see your man completely changes the way he sees himself.

The masculine’s raison d’être is to serve the feminine. You hold the lens, he brings it to life.

If you see disappointment, failure and someone you resent - 

He becomes that. 

This runs so much deeper than you could possibly know.

So I want to invite you to feel this…

What if the biggest breakthrough in your love life was on the other side of you relaxing?

Maybe then it would finally be worth investing in being a more relaxed version of you.

Where your frequency could quite literally determine the direction of his thoughts, feelings and actions.

Yes, you are that powerful.

You are the ONE.