Like a Queen
You keep asking for something and he only halfway follows through. Not because he doesn’t care or we need a better strategy -
But because you don’t believe someone could want nothing more than to make you happy.
So you keep talking in circles.
Currently…
You’re repeating yourself. Asking him to…
Be on time
Take out the trash
Plan dates in advance
Plan anything for you at all
Be more clear in his commitment to you
You try saying nothing
You trying saying it sweetly
Saying it sadly
Angrily
Then you try giving him the cold shoulder
Hoping he’ll chase you to find out what’s wrong - which he never does. 😅
You say you want a partner who wants to spend time with you as much as you want to spend it with him.
But I see you…and I know that what you want is a partner who is so obscenely in love with you.
You know that deep down you’re a queen - but you’re not quite acting like her.
I get it. Because I was you.
I used to chase my partner to have conversations.
Dig my heels in when in an argument with him.
Then try the cold shoulder.
All this led to was disconnection and feeling like I was trying so damn hard for little return.
But then I started speaking to him like a QUEEN who valued herself. Her time. Her breath.
And it all changed.
Now he reaches out to me to talk.
Asks what he can do to make me happy.
Says he’s going to do something - and does it.
He makes me feel like the queen of his world.
That’s why I created LIKE A QUEEN: A 4-week program for the woman who’s done talking in circles and ready to communicate in a way that inspires his commitment to you - and to what you want. Message me for access to the replays.