Online Dating the Feminine Way - Part 2

Y’all asked and you shall receive. Part 2 of online dating the feminine way!

6. Use your intuition

Just because you’re dating online doesn’t mean you need to lead only with logic. Take a moment to look at people’s pictures and feel what’s showing through their eyes and smile. Use that feminine intuition to help you sift and filter.

7. Start with a filter date

Before taking time to get ready and spend your precious time on someone you only know through text messages, ask for a phone call or FaceTime as a precursor to meeting IRL. You are a valuable woman and you like to spend your time in valuable ways, so I suggest feeling someone more deeply on a call, first.

8. Choose a time of day that feels good

Not a morning person? Then don’t plan breakfast for your first date. Not a night owl, then say no to 9pm dinners and suggest something earlier. *Pro tip - I don’t suggest sitting across from each other in a first date. Do something that involves movement or some kind of experience instead of falling into the first date interview trap.

9. Length of date

Repeat after me, “no matter how well the date is going I will end the date a couple of hours in.” The feminine paces. Period. End of story.

10. Mental and emotional space

One of the biggest traps I see women fall into is over thinking and day dreaming about someone they hardly even know. Interedependence is not only about physical space (how often you see each other); it’s about the mental and emotional space, too!

11. Gratitude and appreciation

Finally, no matter what happens, even if a date is a total flop, go home and find ONE thing to be truly grateful for. Something the person said, the way you showed up, the food you ate, the sun that was shining - anything at all! Stay in the upward spiral of gratitude and appreciation instead of the downward spiral of despair.

And if you want support with dating in this way, get in touch and let’s see how I can best support you on your journey 📝

With Love,

Diana