Like the tiny curl in Jack’s gorgeous mane that reminds me of coming down from my apartment to see him waiting at my front door on our first date.

She’s been seeing a wonderful man for a couple of months now and right off the bat, he let her know he was undecided about having children.

All that efforting and focusing on fixing the problem is literally deepening the problem and expanding the gap between you and him.

Whether you wait two weeks or two months, these are questions that will help guide your decision on when you’re ready to sleep with someone.

Repeat after me, “no matter how well the date is going I will end the date a couple of hours in.” The feminine paces. Period. End of story.

I know you want to throw all caution to the wind and jump two feet in.

Here's what I didn’t do when Jack said he wasn’t sure if he’d ever get married…

From this day forward I want you to STOP looking for him and START turning on your incredible light so he can finally see you.

A man’s (heart-based) attraction to you is based on how he feels in your presence.

6 months of the highest level mentorship with me. An intimate group. Coming back into your body. Raising your standards. Receiving in overflow from the masculine.

I want you to hear me loud and clear when I say, if the only thing you “learn” to do in this life is feel safe in your body, it will take care of the rest.

We all know the model of manipulating with your disappointment to (try to) make your partner feel bad enough that he’ll change.

Prioritize who you’re being when you’re doing things and in the moments in between, and your life will be a reflection of this.

People often ask me what I think about casual hookups while opening the space to receive a new partner.

It’s the capacity to hold yourself in radical personal responsibility without making yourself wrong and to know what is and isn’t on your side of the street.

We often don’t notice how our incessant complaining is eating away at our man’s confidence.

I would either lean back, observe and let him correct himself, or I’d put on my empowered Queen shoes and have a courageous conversation to tell him how it made me feel.

It’s no longer about what you say or what you know, it’s about who you’re being.

My answer is that both are necessary with compatibility being slightly higher in importance than chemistry.

Whether you’re ready to receive your partner or to receive the partner you already have more deeply, this is the space where we make it happen.