Chemistry or Compatibility?

I get asked about this all the time.

My answer is that both are necessary with compatibility being slightly higher in importance than chemistry.

Because when we’re talking about living and building a life with someone, we want to choose partners who hold similar:

Visions

Values

Views

So that life together has this natural momentum that carries you to the places where you can learn and grow together, have fun together, build together, expand together and experience the full potential of your lives.

And the truth is, compatibility can foster greater intimacy which deepens your chemistry.

And your chemistry is yet another way you get to measure your compatibility.

So really, they feed into each other.

Here are 8 powerful questions to ask yourself to ensure the person you’re dating is an aligned fit for you:

1. Does he support my desired beliefs? (for example: men are kind)

2. Does he have a growth mindset?

3. Does he do the things he says he’s going to do?

4. What values do we share?

5. What are his partnership qualities? 

6. How willing is he to apologize and repair our connection? 

7. What does my future self have to say about me spending time here? 

8. Does my soul feel safe here?

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With love,

Diana