What Happens If The Women Do All The Growing And The Men Stay The Same?

I’ve been consistently hearing from women for the last two years that they’re afraid that they’re going to outgrow all the men out there.

The narrative is that they’re the ones doing all the personal development “work” and the men aren’t following.

From a narrow point of view, I would completely agree.

We see women signing up for workshops, coaching, healing, and on and on.

What the heck are the men up to?

When I rise above and look from a wider lens, I see something else entirely.

Firstly, we need to be careful not to fall into spiritual righteousness.

Ie. I do all the reading, inner child work, etc., which you don’t do, so I am ahead of you and know something that you don’t.

Maybe yes, maybe no.

My husband isn’t nearly as devoted to his spiritual path as I am, but I can tell you that 9 times out of 10, he has significantly more patience than I.

And the man loves me unconditionally. An aspect of the divine I am still trying to touch.

But beyond that, there’s something else for us to see.

We women are re-learning to come back to our hearts.

Most of these workshops, seminars, coaching programs are bringing us back to the core truth that our wisest selves reside deep within our beings, not within our minds, as we had been previously taught to think.

If the heart is meant to lead, and if leading with the heart is an aspect of the feminine, then naturally we would be leading the way.

And the mind, being an aspect of the masculine, is here to serve and follow the heart’s desire.

And so naturally, men will follow.

This may not be how it always is, but it certainly seems to be what the world is calling for us now.

So rather than judging men, which takes you out of your heart and into your mind, lead with your powerful fierce feminine and watch him submit to your desires.

And when he’s in his power, which wants to provide and achieve for you, then you get to feel safe and inspired to submit to him, too.

How divinely beautiful is that?

So yes, it appears that women are the ones doing more of the “work” right now.

But what if you aren’t doing the work at all? What if what you’re actually doing is coming home to your heart and playing a very important role of restoring natural balance?

Food for heart x

With love,

Diana