F__k The Rules.

There’s a notion in the love coaching industry that makes women believe there’s something they need to do differently – that they’re doing it wrong.

And it makes women, who already tend to question themselves way too much, spiral into doubt and despair.

Did I say the wrong thing?

I shouldn’t have called him, now he knows I like him too much.

I wish I would have let him choose where we were going on our date, so he knows I’m a high value woman.

Yes, there’s such thing as acting out of alignment and sabotaging our connections.

AND, questioning and doubting yourself this much is part of the sabotage!

You are not the issue.

You are not an issue at all.

You’re a woman with multiple facets.

And sometimes, you’re complicated.

So, let’s simplify.

Rather than trying to follow any rules, in a moment of calmness you check within and ask…

What is true for me?

How do I want to engage in love?
What is my unique barometer of acting in or out of alignment?
How does this feel in my body?

F**k the rules. And f**k anyone telling you you’re doing it wrong. There’s no such thing! It’s that very thinking that gets in your way.

As soon as you own you, those who align will find you, and those who don’t will fall away.

And that my sister, is a great thing.

With love,

Diana