As I look back, I realize that the reality is that finding a person to make magic with along our journeys requires that our paths cross at just the right time. There's no explaining when it's going to happen or why. It's just magic.

Maybe if you do not make a remark in response to his frustration, or take the issue further, he will just drop it and start to rethink things for himself.

You, my dear, are not crazy. You simply need to see it for what it is: someone who is not willing to open the windows and let in more light.