It might not always look exactly the way you imagined it would, but what would shift if you moved your focus away from how it isn’t to how it is? Could you see that maybe he has been dancing with you all along, you just weren’t able to see it?

What would it look and feel like to sit on your Queen’s throne and have your partner sit on his throne next to you? Two equals, eye to eye, hand in hand, living life together.

As I look back, I realize that the reality is that finding a person to make magic with along our journeys requires that our paths cross at just the right time. There's no explaining when it's going to happen or why. It's just magic.

Take a conscious look at your assumptions, explore what’s behind them, and see how many of those you can shift to a more empowering perspective.

Let’s be honest, how can a man really like you, if he doesn’t really know you? So my question for you is, what beliefs are holding you back from love?

Transformation is the culmination of small incremental shifts.

When a woman maintains her friendships, spends time alone, makes her own plans from time to time, and doesn’t drop everything for him - he respects her, because SHE respects herself.

Pursue your own growth and possibly inspire him to pursue his.

When you know who you are, what you want, what you stand for, and what you are claiming for yourself, it becomes like this built-in filtration system.

If you replace the words money and love with energy, you will see, they are one and the same.

Asking your future self (who is always a more evolved version of you), what she would have you do, is an incredibly powerful way to make a choice.

How were you feeling leading up to the latest moment of bliss with your partner? Do that regularly BEFORE trying to fix anything in your relationship.

Consider all the subtle ways you are belittling your partner and notice -- truly notice -- the ways it is blocking love in your relationship.

Take a wholehearted look at each individual as just that - an individual, fabricated by the same hands of Divinity as you.

The next time you find yourself frustrated with your man, have some compassion and remember that just like you, he too is on an ever-unfolding path.

People are not inherently evil, and you do not need to jump to judgment. You do however want to make choices that align with your vision - of who you want to be with, and who you want to be.

Your past is the perfect training ground for the big love you are calling in.

By choosing the perspective of appreciation, you are building your intuitive muscle. And it is your intuition that is going to guide you towards the answer to the question: Am I being too picky, or am I choosing what I know I deserve?

If you want your relationship to be how it “used to be” - remember who you used to be.