Sometimes we think we love someone, when what we love is how they or being with them, makes us feel about ourselves.

Consider the subtle ways you are belittling your partner and notice -- like truly notice -- the ways it is blocking love in your relationship.

The truth is, over-giving, over-analyzing, and “performing” to get him to love you is actually the exact thing that’s in the way of him loving you.

I am a “no rules” love coach. I’m not going to tell you to wait 3 days, 3 weeks or 3 months for any specific milestones in your new relationship. What I will insist on, however, is the slow burn. But what does that mean exactly?