You Can’t Actualize Your Desires If You’re Too Busy Trying To Feed Yourself

When you enter my world, I ask you to imagine expanding beyond the basic.

Having a partner who’s loyal, respectful, consistent – these are foundational.

They are akin to needs. Absolute must-haves.

Once we go beyond basics, that’s where we get to play in the realm of desire and expansion.

Like imagining traveling the world together, making babies, calling in your fortunes, playing together, whatever your unique soul desires.

It’s much like Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

Once we have our foundational needs met, we can move into the space of self-actualization, or in this case, selves-actualization.

So when someone asks you want you want in a partner, consider expanding beyond the basics of loyalty and respect, because of course, you not only want those, you need them to be safe inside of your union.

That safety then becomes the foundation for your ever-expanding desires; if you’re in a woman’s body, I can promise that desiring is a natural state of being.

But you can’t actualize your desires if you’re too busy trying to feed yourself.

The basics are a must. An absolute standard of yours. A total non-negotiable.

Capish?

With love,

Diana