Men and masculine energy are like bees to honey when you’re feeeeeling and pouring into YOURSELF.

The continuous loop of talking about dating, why you aren’t dating, who you’re dating and why it’s not working out IS going to keep your life partner at bay. The thing you focus on grows.

I know you’ve seen the women before you give their all for the ones they love.

The truth is that if he feels that’s what he’s doing to you, he may simply decide you deserve something - and someone else all together.

Recently a client asked if she should cancel the dates she had coming up because she wasn’t in the “right” energetic state after a couple of disappointing dating experiences.

While you know this isn’t a pattern you want to carry forward, you find yourself slipping into not only taking care of your kids, but your man, too.

I’ve always been in love with my man’s potential from our very first date when he told me he imagined a life for himself outside of the usual box.

Like the tiny curl in Jack’s gorgeous mane that reminds me of coming down from my apartment to see him waiting at my front door on our first date.

All that efforting and focusing on fixing the problem is literally deepening the problem and expanding the gap between you and him.

I know you want to throw all caution to the wind and jump two feet in.

There’s a difference between being needy and needing your man.

Here's what I didn’t do when Jack said he wasn’t sure if he’d ever get married…

From this day forward I want you to STOP looking for him and START turning on your incredible light so he can finally see you.

I want you to hear me loud and clear when I say, if the only thing you “learn” to do in this life is feel safe in your body, it will take care of the rest.

I can still remember the aching feeling of wishing my partner would finally arrive.

The women who come into my world are usually most concerned with the love that comes and goes or never seems to come.

It’s the capacity to hold yourself in radical personal responsibility without making yourself wrong and to know what is and isn’t on your side of the street.

Whether you’re ready to receive your partner or to receive the partner you already have more deeply, this is the space where we make it happen.

During our initial meeting, Diana asked me what I wanted to get out of School of Love. Of course, a partner, but what else?

We’ve been conditioned, from an early age, to strive for independence.