When you’ve asked your man to make a change and you see no change in sight.

We often don’t notice how our incessant complaining is eating away at our man’s confidence.

I would either lean back, observe and let him correct himself, or I’d put on my empowered Queen shoes and have a courageous conversation to tell him how it made me feel.

Competition is a masculine energy quality. While the feminine invites collaboration.

I’m also becoming acutely aware of the ways in which I do or don’t express my gratitude - or even feel it for that matter.

While controlling energy may be associated to more toxic masculine traits, there is nothing divine about it.

Yes, competition can be healthy in very specific contexts, but in most, it tears you away from connection and love.

The healthy expression of the masculine wants to give and provide, this is what it is designed to do. It’s the essence of the masculine.

Which side do you really want to be on?

I am putting on the mask of being in my feminine, but the masculine is still dominant. I am “doing” the self-care but not really relaxing and allowing myself to receive the full benefits.

It essentially came down to noticing when she was trying too hard or when she was not being honest about how she felt.

Balancing your strengths with the opposite end of the spectrum keeps you in check. Do not let your strengths become your weakness.