The Safest I've Felt In My Entire Life
As much as I love supporting women who are calling in love, I deeply love doing the same for women who are in relationships.
And I realize, I’ve done you a disservice by talking about this particularly special group of women as if the most important thing to them (perhaps you, too), is the shifts in their romantic partnership.
Gazing into the eyes of every woman in this current round of the Inner Circle who’s in a relationship, I see that what she’s really here for is a deepened connection with herself.
A release of control.
A shedding of old skin.
A reclaiming of herself as a woman.
A desire to soften.
A desire to be held.
“When you begin to look into your own nature and take full responsibility for your behaviour, you will go through a wonderful softening process as your natural feminine side comes once again to the fore.” Richard Rudd. (a transmission from the 62nd Gene Key, which happens to be my Life’s Work. If you know you know!).
Of course, the ripple effect of this is nothing short of magic.
Relationships with family members mended.
Picking up new exciting hobbies with their partners after decades of marriage.
Allowing their partner to set boundaries with in laws vs being the one doing all the doing.
Inviting play back into their relationships.
Having their needs met and their desires fulfilled.
Feeling the layers of resentment melt away and making space for unconditional love.
Here’s how some of the women describe their experience…
“Being part of the SOL Inner Circle felt like I was held in an exquisitely sacred space where I was seen, heard and supported like never before.”
“It’s the safest I have felt in my entire life. A place where you can guiltlessly put yourself first.”
“I never thought that I could expand this much with loving and choosing myself. I know exactly what makes my body and soul filled with serenity, and I’ve been witnessing deep change all around me.”
P.S. The next round of School of Love’s Inner Circle for women in relationships begins in October. If you’re ready for me, I’m ready for you.
P.P.S. This is still one of my favorite stories. An incredible journey of love.
Yesterday morning my husband crawled into bed when he heard my alarm go off, held me gently, and whispered in my ear "I love touching you. This is what grounds me". As I melted into his arms and soaked in all his love and affection, I sat in awe of him. Of our love. Of my ability to let my guard down, let him love me and just bask in it.
The most shocking thing about this is that only 18 months ago, I was contemplating a separation.
When I started following Diana’s work, I was a complete skeptic.
I was so stuck on the resentment I was feeling from a lifetime of over-doing and the imbalance I felt it created in my marriage that all I could hear was "You do more work, he doesn't have to do anything".
The notion of "Kings and Queens" also felt so out of reach for me - like fairy-tale talk instead of real life.
But my gosh, was I ever wrong
In 2021 I decided to sign up for School of Love - a decision that has truly changed my life.
I've learned how to set firm boundaries, communicate courageously using the most loving language, and to create space for magic to happen rather than chasing and forcing it.
I learned to sit with discomfort and breathe until the discomfort became comfortable.
This work is really not just about marriages and romantic relationships. It's about becoming the best person you can be - for yourself. And the way it will impact your external world is truly endless.
Over the past 6 months, I have made peace and created closure for myself over struggles with family, pain and trauma that I had been carrying for decades.
As I worked to turn down the temperature of all the hardship, I realized the space was always there to turn alignment on full blast - I just had to take the step.
As I went to bed last night, I committed to the intention of ending the day as beautifully as it began. I snuggled up to my husband, nestled my head under his chin and whispered, "you are my home, and you are my King".
And I meant it with all my heart.
Diana, I will be forever grateful for your gifts, love and friendship. You've changed my life, you are changing the world, and it's meant so much to be a part of that. – Anonymous Queen
With love,
Diana