It takes a certain vulnerability to feel and acknowledge my desires, and to share them with you.

Once we go beyond basics, that’s where we get to play in the realm of desire and expansion.

You get to have your standards, without judging anyone else or trying to fit them into a box your mind can understand.

What if you accepted that they get to be a part of you, and not all of you?

In her words, “I wrote this for women in relationships, who hold onto resentment like a damn in the river. We CAN move and free ourselves and the river so that the flow of love can become effortless again, like it was always meant to be.”

Welcome to a whole new way to be in love. Where you get to do less and experience so much more.

One is very childish girl energy, and the other is my woman self, showing up in all her delicious glory.

What kind of life might await you when THIS becomes your point of reference?

While controlling energy may be associated to more toxic masculine traits, there is nothing divine about it.

And every once in a while, when their wise self takes a backseat to their human self, I’m there to help remind them.

In that moment, I had a choice to project my time stress onto my husband and create tension/resistance/yucky feelings between us….or relax and enjoy my daughter’s sweet (and sassy) smile, for a few more minutes.

I've learned how to set firm boundaries, communicate courageously using the most loving language, and to create space for magic to happen rather than chasing and forcing it.

And how lucky are they, to be held so wholly and supported so deeply?

Since the day my son was born I could see...HE was my biggest mirror.

The more I say NO to something that isn’t in alignment with me, the more I am able to say YES to everything that is in alignment.

How can you detach from an outcome, like let’s say meeting a man you’re really interested in and hoping it turns into something deeper when you want it so much?

I know you’re less familiar with the feeling of safe security in a relationship.

What if you started noticing what they are doing even half as much as you pay attention to what they are not?