When you notice yourself in that space, dig a little into your fear and lean back for the answer of your most empowered self.

The truth is, you will never quite excavate all of your past wounds by digging in, but you can get most of it. That last little bit can only come from taking the leap, a stand for yourself and making new empowered choices.

You can drop the charade, put down the spatula, and simply live your best life - all while telling and showing him that you like and appreciate him.

Not only is it important to take space from each other, or from thinking about each other, but we also have to offer our partners the space to go through their own shit without trying to understand where they’re at every step of the way.

You, my goddess, have much better ways to be spending your time and energy than wasting it away stressing about, thinking about, and worrying about the new guy in your life. So I want to help you save some of it. There are a few ways you can spot the difference between a guy who’s taking his time or wasting yours.

Like with most women I work with, chances are you’re playing on both ends of the spectrum - in some ways selling yourself short, and in other ways, asking for things you can actually learn to do more for yourself.

Without the necessary awareness, your inner child and his are the ones having fights, being defensive, getting overly emotional, and being all-around triggered. The first step is awareness: my inner child is afraid.

The sweet spot is in finding the balance between the energies within you. Are you truly balancing the “doing” energy of the masculine, with the “being” energy of the feminine?

Before stressing yourself and your partner about planning more exciting and romantic moments together, try bringing romance into the micro-moments - and watch your relationship become like new.

Remember those days when you lived in separate homes and could do your own things and excitedly get together for date nights? It can still be that way.

You don’t need to be a martyr to your cosmic imprint, soul contracts or generational patterns. You get to heal and choose a new way.

A man pulling away in the early days of your connection is pretty common and yes, it’s very uncomfortable for you. The masculine energy desires freedom, and when he starts to fear that he’s losing it, he’s likely to pull back a little while. That being said, ghosting you all together is never an acceptable approach.

I am a “no rules” love coach. I’m not going to tell you to wait 3 days, 3 weeks or 3 months for any specific milestones in your new relationship. What I will insist on, however, is the slow burn. But what does that mean exactly?

Imagine if we could harness all the energy we use worrying about, talking about, thinking about, crying about our relationships… What else might we create?

It might not always look exactly the way you imagined it would, but what would shift if you moved your focus away from how it isn’t to how it is? Could you see that maybe he has been dancing with you all along, you just weren’t able to see it?

Bringing a woman into her feminine, Queen energy who draws out the best in her King is one of my strongest skills as a love coach.

You, my dear, do not need to be saved by me, or anyone. But you do deserve the support. We all do.

I don’t believe you should sit in someone’s waiting room; I also believe that we are highly intuitive beings who can see the bigger truth when we allow ourselves to.

Getting real honest about how your inner child is (unconsciously) sabotaging your love life, your communication style, and your way of relating, is KEY.

How does this feel to you, to slow it down and be more intentional? Does it trigger your fear that it will be too long before you meet your King, or does it set you free?