Like with most women I work with, chances are you’re playing on both ends of the spectrum - in some ways selling yourself short, and in other ways, asking for things you can actually learn to do more for yourself.

Without the necessary awareness, your inner child and his are the ones having fights, being defensive, getting overly emotional, and being all-around triggered. The first step is awareness: my inner child is afraid.

The sweet spot is in finding the balance between the energies within you. Are you truly balancing the “doing” energy of the masculine, with the “being” energy of the feminine?

Before stressing yourself and your partner about planning more exciting and romantic moments together, try bringing romance into the micro-moments - and watch your relationship become like new.

Remember those days when you lived in separate homes and could do your own things and excitedly get together for date nights? It can still be that way.

You don’t need to be a martyr to your cosmic imprint, soul contracts or generational patterns. You get to heal and choose a new way.

A man pulling away in the early days of your connection is pretty common and yes, it’s very uncomfortable for you. The masculine energy desires freedom, and when he starts to fear that he’s losing it, he’s likely to pull back a little while. That being said, ghosting you all together is never an acceptable approach.

I am a “no rules” love coach. I’m not going to tell you to wait 3 days, 3 weeks or 3 months for any specific milestones in your new relationship. What I will insist on, however, is the slow burn. But what does that mean exactly?

Imagine if we could harness all the energy we use worrying about, talking about, thinking about, crying about our relationships… What else might we create?

It might not always look exactly the way you imagined it would, but what would shift if you moved your focus away from how it isn’t to how it is? Could you see that maybe he has been dancing with you all along, you just weren’t able to see it?

Bringing a woman into her feminine, Queen energy who draws out the best in her King is one of my strongest skills as a love coach.

You, my dear, do not need to be saved by me, or anyone. But you do deserve the support. We all do.

I don’t believe you should sit in someone’s waiting room; I also believe that we are highly intuitive beings who can see the bigger truth when we allow ourselves to.

Getting real honest about how your inner child is (unconsciously) sabotaging your love life, your communication style, and your way of relating, is KEY.

How does this feel to you, to slow it down and be more intentional? Does it trigger your fear that it will be too long before you meet your King, or does it set you free?

When you’re in a truly loving relationship, courageous communication will move you from opposite sides of the court to playing on the same team.

Dive deep into why emotional connection above all else matters, how to move through trigger moments in a healthy way and answer the question, ‘Do I say something or keep it to myself?’, and then how to communicate in a way that not only appeases you but draws your man in closer.

What would it look and feel like to sit on your Queen’s throne and have your partner sit on his throne next to you? Two equals, eye to eye, hand in hand, living life together.

If you were to muster up the courage to face temporary pain, what decision might you make today to choose yourself?

The excitement is real, the disappointment is real, the unknown of it all is real. And, it’s also deeply fun when I let it be.