I see you wild child. In all your glory, with all your dreams and insecurities, and I am holding you.

Train yourself to see the good in people and relax into the process.

The Mere Exposure Effect study shows that our attraction to people grows over time as we get to know them in low pressure situations.

Attachment styles are transient and dependent on which relationship you’re in and what that other person magnifies in you.

You can accept yourself with all your beautiful human and spiritual multi facets.

AND still, I invite you to see how creating the feeling of spaciousness in your relationship will start to open you up to new possibilities, new growth, and newfound depths of appreciation.

Safety in a relationship has just as much to do with yourself as it does with the other person.

Love can feel good for you.

Be with someone who is proud to stand as your equal

Worry is a fear frequency

She anchors in the truth of what she feels and knows to be true, and shares this truth from her heart with words dripped in love.

Though you might feel like you know him, and I really do get that feeling –

there is so much left for this person to reveal about himself.

Knowing how to tend to your wounds, and be led by your soul’s desires is one hell of a potent and magnetic combination.

Setting the precedent is so much easier to do when you’re single or newly dating someone. You get to decide what your standards are and put them into action from the very start. You get to show someone what is and isn’t in alignment for you. And, you get to set boundaries and the parameters for being in a relationship with you.

What could have been a moment of intimate connection and sharing, now becomes an UNLOADING - usually filled with hurtful words, tears, and lots of anger.

Rather than trying to avoid it altogether, we need to learn to go to that fear like we would a child and ask, what do you need to feel less scared – how can I support you?

I’ve never resonated with the notion that the Universe is testing me. Like it’s conspiring to see what I’m really ready for. I believe the Universe (which I am a part of, so I am it and it is me), is simply giving me feedback.

A man pulling away in the early days of your connection is pretty common and yes, it’s very uncomfortable for you. The masculine energy desires freedom, and when he starts to fear that he’s losing it, he’s likely to pull back a little while. That being said, ghosting you all together is never an acceptable approach

I find that keeping space between myself and my vision leaves space for the Universe to come and play, to add pieces, remove some and surprise and delight me along the way.

With all the wishing about what our partners could do, we miss so much of what they are already doing. And so much of who they already are.